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The Nine Enneagram Types

Each type belongs to one of three centers — Body, Heart, or Head — that shapes how it experiences and responds to the world.

Body Center

Instinct, anger, control — the gut response

8The Challenger

Self-confident, decisive, confrontational, dominating

9The Peacemaker

Receptive, reassuring, agreeable, complacent

1The Reformer

Principled, purposeful, self-controlled, perfectionistic

Heart Center

Feeling, image, identity — relating through emotion

2The Helper

Generous, demonstrative, people-pleasing, possessive

3The Achiever

Success-oriented, image-conscious, adaptable

4The Individualist

Sensitive, expressive, dramatic, self-absorbed

Head Center

Thinking, fear, anxiety — analyzing and anticipating

5The Investigator

Perceptive, innovative, secretive, isolated

6The Loyalist

Engaging, responsible, anxious, suspicious

7The Enthusiast

Spontaneous, versatile, acquisitive, scattered

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